Discover Your Desire Code
Answer the following questions to find your top 3 Desire Codes. There are 31 possible archetypes grouped into 7 neighborhoods.
Question 1: In sexual experiences, I typically seek to experience or express deep love or connection with my partner.
Question 2: I enjoy exploring power dynamics, such as dominance and submission, in my sexual experiences.
Question 3: I seek validation and affirmation of my desirability during sex.
Question 4: I am turned on by engaging all my senses – sights, sounds, smells, tastes, touches – in sex.
Question 5: I look for a spiritual or transcendent experience through sex.
Question 6: I am excited by indulging in taboo or forbidden aspects during sex.
Question 7: I prioritize having new, interesting, and exciting experiences in sex.
I am turned on by deep, soulful, emotional intimacy and the feeling of merging into one with my partner.
I am turned on by cinematic acts of romance and spending hours on cute activities building up to sex.
I crave physical closeness, skin contact, and cuddling during sex, sometimes more than the sex itself.
I prefer gentle, romantic sex with a slow and comfortable warmup filled with sensuality.
Which of these appeals to you most in power play?
Which of these appeals to you most in power play?
Which of these appeals to you most in power play?
I am primarily turned on by my ability to please my partner and seeing their pleasure.
I enjoy learning and mastering specific skills to create pleasure.
I am turned on by being watched and admired during sex.
The right mood or vibe, like scents and music, is essential to turn me on.
I like being animalistic and messy in sex, following instinct.
I am turned on by gentle teasing touches that give goosebumps.
I need to anticipate and yearn for sex with teasing and withholding.
I seek a spiritual experience in sex to connect to something greater.
Sex for me is about transcendence and spiritual connection.
I enjoy incorporating spiritual practices into my sexual experiences.
The freedom to pursue my desires and break free is as pleasing as the pleasure itself.
I am turned on by what’s forbidden or bad for me, pushing boundaries.
I find pleasure in leading someone else to indulge in their dark side.
I love sex that will make an incredible story, with spontaneity and exciting locations.
Novelty and experimentation with new acts, toys, or contexts turn me on.
Stepping into fantastical stories with roleplay, costumes, and characters excites me.
I am turned on by enthusiasm, laughter, discovery, and joy in sex.